[Hindi Jokes] How to Move On When You Have Loved & Lost

How to Move On When You Have Loved & Lost

It is better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all or so we've heard. But what if when we've loved and lost, and it hasn't ended at all? We are talking about losing our love not to a break-up, but to something more final. We are talking about that time when fate snatches our loved one away, never to be heard from again; when we lose them to death.

However much we may choose to avoid the subject because it is heart breaking, it is a fact of life and all of us know of someone this has happened to. We have all wished that there was a way to help our friends in this situation, or to learn how to cope with this grief, but always come up short.When we lose our other half to death, everything else is that much tougher. This is because there is no break-up, there are no bitter what-ifs and there is no closure. In fact, there is no end to a relationship. So how does one move on from this loss?

First of all, accept it and take time to grieve. This person loved you and left, not to hurt you but because fate had planned it so. Accept that this will never change and accept that this love will never end. But also accept that at some point you may feel ready to restart your life.

Once this happens, accept the healing of your heart. Moving on and starting to live again is something that anyone who loves you would want for you. Don't deny it to yourself.

If and when you meet someone you could care about again, do it without guilt. Loving again is not being disloyal to the memory of your past love. It is merely accepting the love that you are entitled to.

But above all, don't expect anyone to replace the person you have lost. Give them a chance to be with you in their own way. Explain to them that you will never forget the person you lost and there will be days when you miss that person very much, and ask them to hold your hand through it, but do not expect them to heal you.Also make sure that the other person knows that he cannot ask you to forget the past. You will learn to live with it, but it isn't easy to forget something beautiful. Accept that!

Finally, accept that you are alive and have a duty to yourself. And your duty is to be loved and be happy. Hold your old love dear in your heart, but do not deny yourself the joys of a new life. Go ahead, grab that second chance 'coz you deserve it.

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